How do we bring men and women to communicate effectively in relationships without counselling?

If Men and women are wired differently, and women struggle to understand men, and vice versa, shouldnt we work on getting them to know each other better, and solve problems like divorce, separation and its consequences.

I think the best thing to do is to start putting your spouse first- and think of their feelings first. If you are more concerned about the other person- communication will be easier. As long as there are no outside factors such as addidtion, abuse, adultery, dishonesty- that kind of stuff.

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11 Responses to How do we bring men and women to communicate effectively in relationships without counselling?

  1. aussiechick says:

    Good question. When you find out let me know. I'm in need of that help right now.
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  2. SirCornman says:

    Have them date a lot of people and meet a lot of people and interact so they can understand the differences for themselves.
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  3. juliesunit says:

    they should grow up
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  4. Spin says:

    You can start by not matching up total opposites. Opposites really do not attract.

    Start matching up with compatible partners.
    eHarmony gaurantees it!
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  5. it's your own fault says:

    It's called talking. And then again, sometimes it's best to remain quiet.
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  6. Long_cool_woman says:

    I think improving their vocabularies would be a big help.
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  7. silvertulie2000 says:

    how will they get to counseling if they can't get through the first date? :)

    there are a ton of great books out there that would really help if people would read them. as cheesy as it is, the men are from mars, women are from venus series is really good.
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  8. Me says:

    I think the best thing to do is to start putting your spouse first- and think of their feelings first. If you are more concerned about the other person- communication will be easier. As long as there are no outside factors such as addidtion, abuse, adultery, dishonesty- that kind of stuff.
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    Experience

  9. x_chelsea_marie_x says:

    Men and women will come to communicate effectively in relations when they see their preceding generation (namely their parents) communicating effectively in relationships. Until then they will need the help of counselling.
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  10. Kezza says:

    We don't bring men and women to do anything with regards to their own communication and relationships. The only one you get to work on is you. If you're a parent you get to try to influence your children. If you're a counselor….well, that's been eliminated by the last two words in the question. As appealing as it is to try to change other people, it just won't work, and it's intrusive and annoying, besides.
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  11. wondering in michigan says:

    Ever hear of the book called: Women are from Venus, Men are from Mars? EXCELLENT!!!!!!! Everyone should read this book!
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