I like this video. … I like this video. A few years ago I ran into two bullies at the same place of employment. The more I tried to make friends with them, the more they bullied.
Then I suddenly realized that the reason they were bullying was because they “enjoyed” having people sweat to make friends with them.
Eventually I learned to totally ignore them and to STOP all efforts to make friends with them. They appeared to actually be quite upset by this and the whole game stopped.
how do you answer … how do you answer that ? well , yes, most people are reasonable and rational as long as it is in their favor. what does that mean? best to keep to yourself and let the holes be holes. when you can’t understand it , and you can’t run away from it, it , you’ll get so stressed you might wanna consider between your sanity and your job
Correct my frind, … Correct my frind, like the old saying goes, if you dont make a plan before you do something, then your plan is to fail. I hope this helps too.
This video presumes … This video presumes most people are reasonable and rational. I’ve been mercilessly bullied by superiors both in graduate school and in a work environment. Knowing the reasons doesn’t change anything. couldn’t run cause there was everything to lose. Couldn’t take a stand cause that would be a death sentence. Couldn’t change their ‘tude because bullying behavior is very ingrained. Couldn’t change my attitude cause no one can ever reframe abuse as a positive thing.
As much as I just … As much as I just want to beat the out of this one guy at work, I’ll get fired, this guy from now on will not get under my skin, I have had to deal with got mother ers before, they have got to me, but not this time.
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really practical …
really practical suggestions. thanks
Simple, practical …
Simple, practical and useful. Helped me pick a few pointers on when to confront and when NOT to confront. Thanks.
I could only listen …
I could only listen to this for about a minute, his accent killed me
I like this video. …
I like this video. A few years ago I ran into two bullies at the same place of employment. The more I tried to make friends with them, the more they bullied.
Then I suddenly realized that the reason they were bullying was because they “enjoyed” having people sweat to make friends with them.
Eventually I learned to totally ignore them and to STOP all efforts to make friends with them. They appeared to actually be quite upset by this and the whole game stopped.
how do you answer …
how do you answer that ? well , yes, most people are reasonable and rational as long as it is in their favor. what does that mean? best to keep to yourself and let the holes be holes. when you can’t understand it , and you can’t run away from it, it , you’ll get so stressed you might wanna consider between your sanity and your job
Correct my frind, …
Correct my frind, like the old saying goes, if you dont make a plan before you do something, then your plan is to fail. I hope this helps too.
exactly. Well said …
exactly. Well said simple solutions are for simple problems. The advice here is good when it fits.
This video presumes …
This video presumes most people are reasonable and rational. I’ve been mercilessly bullied by superiors both in graduate school and in a work environment. Knowing the reasons doesn’t change anything. couldn’t run cause there was everything to lose. Couldn’t take a stand cause that would be a death sentence. Couldn’t change their ‘tude because bullying behavior is very ingrained. Couldn’t change my attitude cause no one can ever reframe abuse as a positive thing.
Very thoughtfully …
Very thoughtfully done…now I know..I need to give a thought and plan before actually reacting to the difficult guy
thanks a lot indeed
thanks a lot indeed
As much as I just …
As much as I just want to beat the out of this one guy at work, I’ll get fired, this guy from now on will not get under my skin, I have had to deal with got mother ers before, they have got to me, but not this time.
Thanks for your …
Thanks for your time and effort in doing this.
The presentation is …
The presentation is simple yet very practicle and helpful when one gives himself a 10 seconds of thinking before acting